When
Jesus met John he nicked man him ‘a son of thunder’ – prone to lose his temper
at a moment’s notice. A life-time
journeying with Jesus and his church gave him a new nickname – the Apostle of
love. It’s a story that should inspire
us.
But
what is love, biblically? How would you
define love? In a marriage or with
children? In our friendships or in the
work place or lecture hall? What about
with a girlfriend or boyfriend? Toward
other Christians? What does it mean to
love? What are the limits of love? When should love stop loving?
The
dictionary definition of love is: ‘To
feel a deep romantic or sexual attachment to someone.’ Or ‘To have a great interest and pleasure in
something.’ Is that love?
Jim
Morrison, the frontman of The Doors who died in 1971 at 28 said “A true friend
is someone who lets you have total freedom to be yourself…Whatever you happen
to be feeling at the moment is fine with them. That's what real love amounts to
- letting a person be what he really is: good, bad, ugly, whatever.” Really?
Is that love – to allow a friend to be ugly and bad?
Toby
Flood, England Fly-Half on and off since 2006 with 57 caps said “We need to
love one another in a way that doesn’t want to change each other. Just accept the imperfections we
perceive.” Is that love?
Noah
Glass, co-inventor of Twitter in 2007 said “Love is marvellous. We can love people. And then of course it can hurt and we need to
stop loving them and protect ourselves from further damage. And move on.”
Love deserts when the going gets tough?
How do you feel about that? How
would you define love?
Jesus: battle-field ready, warrior-hard,
blood-spilling love
‘A
new command I give you: love one
another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my
disciples, if you love one another.’ (John 13: 34-35)
Three
times Jesus says ‘love one another’.
Each time he says it he attaches it to an image. They are perhaps not the images we have in
mind when we think about love:
Image 1: It is a call to war: the call
to take arms by a commander to troops.
‘A
new command I give you’ is military language for a call to engage in
battle. The language suggests the blood
earnest battle shout to arms of a general to his forces or a captain rallying
his team to hard, bruising action.
Loving
well requires soldier-like grit and courage.
True love is like a battlefield.
Are you ready to fight? No
sentimental fluffiness here.
Image 2: It is a call to death: the call
to die at the very hands of those you love.
‘As
I have loved you’ means love others like Jesus loved us. It means death, blood, brutality, and
sacrifice for the sake and at the hand of those you are loving. When does this love stop or give up? At what point is the cost too great to carry
on loving? Loving well means dying at
the hands of those we love. True love is
like a crucifix. Are you ready to die?
Image 3: It is a call be to known: a
call to be distinctively Jesus’ disciples.
‘By
this everyone will know you are my disciples.’
Jesus’ death for us was a public sceptical not a private, reclusive
event. It is love publicly communicated
as because we are Jesus’ disciples. It
is our new marker of belonging to Jesus.
Loving
well means people know we love because of Jesus. True loves is like a megaphone. Are you ready to be known?
What is your love like?
As
a husband or boyfriend? To work
colleagues? In friendships? As a wife?
With your children? As a
girlfriend? With your money and
time? Within the church?
Is
it the obedience of a soldier to his commander’s call to arms? Hard, strong, battle-ready, resolute.
Is
it ready and willing to be bloodied, bruised, battered and buried even at the
hands of the ones you love?
Is
it distinct because you are Jesus’ disciple?
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